“Forgive us our
sins as we have forgiven those who sin against us.” This is such a huge topic
and issue that we are returning to it. Today, we want to focus on forgiving
others and dealing with stronghold sins. We especially need to confess
the deadly sin of unforgiveness. In light of the huge sin debt that our Lord has forgiven us, how dare we not forgive the relatively small sin debt of
others (Mt.18:21-35). I know it doesn’t feel small at first, but it’s crucial
that we bring closure to their sin against us, or it will close off our
fellowship with our Father. Jesus highlighted this right after giving the
Lord’s prayer. He said, “For if you forgive other people when
they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not
forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins” Mt.6:14-15.
The older brother’s unforgiveness toward his prodigal brother hardened his
heart and kept him from enjoying his father’s joy and fellowship at the
celebration. He ended up resenting even his father’s grace.
So if the
Spirit of Christ should point out an area where we are harboring unforgiveness
or are failing to reflect Christ in thought, word or deed, then follow David’s
example- “Then I acknowledged my sin to
you and did not cover up my iniquity. I said, ‘I will confess my transgressions
to the LORD.’ And you forgave the guilt of my sin.” Ps.32:5.
But if we
foolishly seek to hide the enemy (our sins), rather than confessing and ridding
ourselves of such, then great setbacks await us- “Whoever conceals
his transgressions will not prosper…” Prov.28:13. The strong walls of Jericho
fell to Joshua and the people as they obeyed God. But they were next soundly
defeated at the small town of Ai because one man saw, coveted, and stole forbidden
things. He concealed his transgressions. It wasn’t until he confessed his evil
that the army was victorious. How horrible to think that if I should cherish sin
in my heart, that I could hinder not only myself, but the army of God and M3.
So if you (including me) ever end up struggling
with a concealed and enslaving sin, then it’s time to use another powerful,
divine weapon to drive it out- confessing
to another brother who can help you conquer. Breakthroughs begin when dark,
enslaving sins such as pornography, immorality, drugging, drinking, etc are
exposed to the light- ”Have nothing to do with the
fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.” Eph.5:11. Such sins
are sickening to your soul. “Therefore confess your
sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The
prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” James 5:16. We want to
be righteous men who are prayerful and helpful so that a struggling brother feels safe to open
up to us. When he does, we want to lovingly seek to restore him, hating the
sin, but loving the sinner. “Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who
are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be
tempted. Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way
you will fulfill the law of Christ.” Gal.6:1-2. The law of Christ is his law
of love. His great love that forgave us is to motivate us to forsake our sins and
help others overtaken by sin. Love is the greatest.
G.a- Once again, we’ve covered several important
Scriptures. Pick one from all of the above that especially grabbed your
attention; write it out on our blog and briefly comment on it.
G.b- Write out a portion of that passage on
your MP3 card. Do the “Did it”
when you did it.
Announcements/Reminders
1. “Then I acknowledged my sin to you and did not cover up my iniquity. I said, ‘I will confess my transgressions to the LORD.’ And you forgave the guilt of my sin.” Ps.32:5.
ReplyDeleteDavid owned up to his mistakes. He took responsibility for his faults. I believe that shows a Mature attitude. He wasn't pointing fingers at no one but himself. David says that he confessed and he was released. Pastor Mark even talked about being free but living in a slave mentality. I have struggled with this at times. I confess my sins to God but think how can He just forgive me like that. Well God says, "if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9). Instead of being set free and walk free, often times we can be set free, but beat ourselves up with guilt. I think it boils down to really believing and trusting in what God says about His forgiving attitude and attributes.
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Agreed Eddie! We must walk by faith in what God declares about himself and us. "Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance?" Micah 7:18
ReplyDeleteProverbs 28.13 "Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy"
ReplyDeleteYou know in my life it was hard to confess things to people because everyone around me was family. And well most of my friends are non believers. so to them a "sin" is fine. "it just a Friday night Vince" . They say to me. I know deep inside GOD has more greater things in store for me. But I notices that when I go GOD and ask for forgiveness it feel good. And talking to a brother like Daniel Contreras during the blue book session. Really help out. and gave me a new hope and breathe of fresh air. GOD is good. His mercy is new every morning. I am grateful he love me the way he does, without him I would not be here. Plus having great brothers like in M3 and a great family at home to help in the pursuit of GOD heart. Give me more strength . We are not perfect but we serve a perfect GOD. It great to forgive other because imagine if GOD never forgave us.
GOD BLESS
Scary words you ended with Vince- "Imagine if God never forgave us." Thanks.
Delete1.- James 5:16 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed, the prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.
ReplyDeleteSin has such a powerful and enslaving effect on our lives when we keep it hidden. I have found this verse to be so true, when I confess my sins to someone else and ask for prayer that sin no longer has that controlling effect over me. When it is out in the open it looses its strength over my life and with the help of prayers from godly brothers I am able to be restored into communion with God. How powerful it is to be part of group of men that want to follow and obey God.
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Excellent Roger! I hope everyone reads your words!
DeleteThank you brothers for the warm welcome to M3, please bear with me as I'm new to blogging and I'm trying to acclimate quickly. As for my thoughts regarding M3, when Dave shared it with me it struck a cord because I have a heart for ministering, especially to men. It's imperative that we surround ourselves with spiritual columns (other believers) and to instill spiritual disciplines to continue maturing in our faith. Thanks again Dave for your hospitality and for inviting me to join this wonderful group of mighty men of valor. I look forward to laboring with my brothers in Christ.
ReplyDelete1. Matthew 6:14 "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."
This is a passage that I often recollect to remind myself that as a follower of Christ I must forgive to be forgiven. I struggle many of times forgiving individuals who habitually seek my demise. I must first decide to forgive and then ask God to give me grace in the process that allows his Word to nurture my wounded pride "2 Corinthians 12:8-10 Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong."
Robert I am so happy you are part of our group and I thank God for the positive influence in so many people's lives that you have had. It was because of your words of encouragement and support that I believed that I too could reach out and influence others. That is how I started mentoring on Tuesday nights.
DeleteYour passion for presenting the Word of God and your humility is something that always impressed me and set a good example for all of us in your small group. May God continue to use you in a powerful way like He did in my life.
Wow! What appreciative words Roger you have for Robert! I too am glad to have you on board Robert. It's going to be a great journey together. I liked the following word picture you shared- "It's imperative that we surround ourselves with spiritual columns (other believers) and to instill spiritual disciplines to continue maturing in our faith."
DeleteThis is a very memorable topic during the Men's retreat with the Church. The enslaving chains of unforgiveness are a major stumbling block or deal breaker during a person's walk. I definitely have personal experience with the Sin of unforgiveness in my Heart and then even contributed to the same nature that I was fighting against.
ReplyDeleteSo then the greatest tool in defeating how the enemy was using me was being transparent with my friends and staying in a group of believers friends and brothers that were willing to pray for me. James 5:16 is a very foundational verse for me to stay focused on. "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective
Did it - I wrote James 5:16 on my card
Very good Gary. Thanks again for tutoring some of us yesterday on blogspot techno issues. Udabest!
Delete1. James 5:16 "Therefore confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."
ReplyDeleteI spent most of my adult life totally believing in God and fearing my death as I was ashamed and full of guilt for my sins-- I didn't know how to alleviate my pain. I had an encounter with God and came to NL and found my own direct relationship with The Lord. I remember reading James 5:16 and how forgiveness must be given to be received, as I took a bold step in faith and shared my sins with Brothers from NL and of course with God- acknowledged, repented, prayed , and I was prayed for by many. The result was incredible and for the 1st time I knew I was forgiven and those same Brothers are friends forever.
" remember this: whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins." James 5:20
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I am redeemed!
Jack, you are a living letter of our Lord's that others are reading and thus also seeking the Lord.
DeleteWelcome Robert, I know God can definitely work through you. Glad you are onboard.
ReplyDeleteI chose Matthew 6:14-15 to comment and put in my phone.
14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
I didn't realize that forgiving my parents for a tough upbringing would set me free. Lewis B. Smedes said it best "To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you". I also realized it during a New Life Men's retreat.I highly recommend it to anyone that has not attended before. If you have, I encourage you to invite someone. I look back at what I went through and realize that my upbringing has made be a better father. I thank God that I learned from their mistakes and that God helped me break generational cycles.
Here is a good song on forgiveness by Matthew West. Second link is the story behind it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIbCpy0CQEo&feature=player_detailpage
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n9J6xOT3Ldw&feature=player_detailpage
Very good Sam! I liked watching both of them. But if men are pressed for time, the last one is a must see.
DeleteThe verse that caught my eyes and thoughts is “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins” Mt.6:14-15. It's a rude awakening when our heavenly Father can forgive us our sins but we at time cannot forgive others who sin against us. I know I said many times to myself and my children that we have to be like God but not God. We need to live by his example and be a light for Him. Live in the world but not of the world.
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Yes indeed Mike! How we need to be like God and forgive. Thank God we have a forgiving God.
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ReplyDeleteAlright!
ReplyDelete1) James 5:16.Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.”
ReplyDeleteIn one of Pastor Mark's sermon's, he distinguished that we need to confess sin to God for forgiveness and that we need to confess sin to each other for healing. Even though the Bible says we are all sinners, and we know that others know that we are sinners in general, we still have a hard time admitting our particular sins to each other because we feel embarrassed and uncomfortable doing so. But that is the best way to expose those sins to the light in order to weaken and break sin's grip on us. Sometimes our praying is not enough, but God can work mightily in healing us through the striving prayers of others on our behalf.
2) James 5:16 written down & will MP3 during the day tomorrow.
Personal Testimony about M3 > I've been very much blessed through M3. Through M3 I am much more consistent in reading and studying the Word. I'm meditating and praying more through the day. I love the simple tools that help me pray more effectively and strategically for others. I love the accountability and encouragement in M3. I am motivated by the faithfulness and partnership of the other M3 team members. I can see how God is using M3 to build an army of spiritual warriors who are engaging in spiritual battle, side by side to expand the Kingdom of God.
Very good Dave!
DeleteEphesians 5:11 NIV
ReplyDeleteHave nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.
This one definitely got my attention. When I started growing and strengthening my walk in Christ my mentor (who was open & honest) asked me "what is one thing/weakness that can effect your relationship with Christ"? I knew where he was going with is, I honestly didn't want to tell him but if I can't tell him that "pornography" was a weakness than how can i tell my heavenly Father who is unseen anything?
By exposing my sin/weakness to my heavenly Father daily it allowed me to have victory one day at a time by God's grace! Also helped me to open other barriers that I had and be open to God.
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Great Ismael! I appreciate your honesty and your desire to have nothing between you and God.
DeleteYes Ismael, I too appreciate your honesty. This is foundational to all growth.
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ReplyDeleteTherefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.
Boy, does this one hit home. I attended NL for 8 years without letting anybody into my world, because I had a secret box I had hidden in my heart that I was going to take to the grave. In one-on-one mentoring and in my first men's retreat, I was able to finally let others into my life and Roger is so right, when it is out in the open, sin looses its controlling effect and strength over my life.
The enemy knows our weak areas, and constantly tries to attack us where we've already had victory. There are "gateway thoughts" that lead to action and sin, and I've found that confessing the thoughts to a brother wipes out the devil's plan of attack, and completely disarms any power that my past tries to have over me.
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Daniel, wow, very useful, -- when you said that you even "found that confessing the thoughts to a brother wipes out the devil's plan of attack, and completely disarms any power that my past tries to have over me." I don't think that I have ever confessed the very thoughts I had, only the actual sin. Very powerful - it's time to talk to other brothers when I am really into "stinkin thinkin".
Delete"Wow!" is what fell out of my lips. Excellent Daniel!
Delete1. I selected Proverbs 28:13 that states, "Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy." -- I know that the first step toward forgiveness is Confession. Our sinful nature wants to hide our sins and overlook our mistakes, even though our mistakes can teach us something very useful. I think to learn from any mistake, we need to Confess it, repent, and then make adjustments or install safe guards to avoid making it again. I have heard it said "everybody makes mistakes, but only Fools repeat them"
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Mmm.. it's like a dog returning to its own vomit... powerfull brother, keep on the fight using "safe guards".
DeleteGood words Israel. I'm afraid all the human race has foolishly repeated their mistakes at times. We are such slow learners at times. What a merciful and gracious Father we have.
Delete1. Galatians 6:2
ReplyDelete"Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." Isn't this what we're doing on this blog? In this group? The communal nature of our fellowship seeks to bring out our best and it is the Lord's design. I must admit there have many times in my life when I tried to do things on my own. I think that as men we are socialized to be self-sufficient and it is a trap specifically designed for us. I believe most of us (dudes) would think of guys that could not handle the rigors of life (even life in Christ) to weak, almost "less" of a man. Thank God for the truth...we can't do it alone and God understands that!!
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Very good Alvin. "I am weak but he is strong! Yes, Jesus loves me!"
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