In his introduction (1:1-11), Solomon looks at the repetitive cycles of nature. It illustrates the monotonous cycles of life. Man gets up, goes to work, comes home, goes to sleep, then gets up to do it all over and over and over again. "All things are wearisome..." Then he points out that there is nothing new under the sun. We may have new technological inventions, but coming out with new things is not new. And they soon leave us feeling empty again. Is there anything that we can say, "Look, here is something new that will truly fill the hole in man's soul?" He also points out how quickly we are gone and forgotten. Think about it. Who will remember you a few generations from now? How much do you know about your own ancestors from just four generations ago? See how quickly people are forgotten?!
If man's view is only earthly he may conclude, "What a heavy burden God has laid on men!" 1:13. Actually, the heavy burden was laid on Christ. And he also invites all to come to him for relief, "Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest" Mt.11:28. Life lived merely under the sun and not with the Son leaves us often feeling restless and meaningless. We need a Savior! But He is not introduced until the NT. So after seeing how empty life really is in Ecclesiastes, we will jump to the gospel of John and meet the One who gives life meaning and true life to empty souls. Jesus said, "I have come to give them life, life to the full" John 10:10.
1.- Describe one of the most empty or bleak times in your life. It may have been just before you got saved. For me that certainly was the case. Getting high had left me feeling low and empty. My friends were gone along with my first girlfriend. My hopes of becoming a bass player in a rock band vanished and I didn't know what to do with my future after high school. Even my many music albums didn't sooth the hole in my soul. A song by Edgar Winter haunted me, "Why am I dying to live if I'm just living to die?" Everything was empty and meaningless. How about you?
2.- Read Ecclesiastes chapter 1 (Yes, it's right after Proverbs which Solomon also wrote) and pick a verse that grabs you along with some of your thoughts regarding it. As always, write down that MP3 and seek to share it with others.
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I'm happy to introduce a sharp young man whom I knew several years ago when he lived in Chicago and attended New Life. He and his wife and children now live in Warsaw, Indiana. His name is Rich Petre who is a sharp Christian college grad. (He graduated from Grace College, next to Grace Seminary whence I graduated many moons ago.) He will bless you as I know you will do the same for him. Welcome Rich!
Thanks Nic Palhegyi (our Moody grad) for inviting Rich, your good friend since high school days when you were leading Bible clubs on campus. Since you already earned and received your Unstoppable award pin Sunday, today you are graduating from Basic Training. You are no longer a Protege in M3 Nic, you are a Coach. This is a role you've filled before in other arenas. Way to go!
1.- About seven years ago my mom passed away and even though I knew she was a believer and that some day I would see her again it was very hard for me to deal with her departure.
ReplyDeleteI went through several months of depression in which nothing really mattered to me. I wasn't mad at God or blamed Him. When her cancer Had advanced and I knew she wouldn't be around much longer I remember praying to God giving her over to Him and just asking for God to help me deal with her loss.
I was during this time that I started to seek more of God and began attending a small group. After listening to so many prayer requests from my brothers in the group because of the very difficult situations they were going through I started to see that what I was going through was minor in comparison and that there was so much that I should be thankful for. So one night I asked for prayer, I remember everyone laying their hands on me and praying for me. That night I was miraculously by the power of God relived of my depression. Since that day I started to get more involved in church and thank Him everyday for the many undeserved blessing He has given me.
2. Prov 1:8 "All things are full of weariness; a man cannot utter it; the eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor the ear filled with hearing. "
This verse gives me a clear picture of what a man without God is experiencing. Much more reason for us that know the Truth to share it with this lost world.
Awesome to hear God healed you Roger!
DeleteThank Lord for lifting that depression from Roger and using him to encourage so many others.
DeleteGlad you made it safely back from S.America Roger. Welcome back!
Thank you Dave it is great to be back.
DeleteGlad to see you are back.I thank God that He brought you out of that depression. God bless you brother.
DeleteI'm glad God brought you out of your depression. Defiantly a testimony to others of gods loving grace. God bless you bro.
DeleteYou are a great man of God. I bet she would be proud of you being a great man of God
Delete1. An empty time in my life was definitely at my breaking point. I had several things happen before this that caused chaos and disruption amongst my family, but it wasn't until a broken relationship of 9 years brought me to fully surrender to God. I had put all of my hope and trust into having a relationship and life with this one person. I idolized her and the relationship. When all that was gone I felt like my world ended...actually in hindsight I see and know that my life, a life of true purpose, freedom, love, was just truly beginning.
ReplyDelete2. 15What is crooked cannot be straightened;
what is lacking cannot be counted.
This is a proverb the author uses. A technique, as Dave mentioned, that he often uses throughout this book. I believe it describes that there is something wrong with us people and how we can few life from the wrong perspective, which can ultimately impact how we live our lives here.
God has a far better relationship stored for you my brother. He's molded you into a great guy and will bring a great girl to you.
DeleteSo glad God used that dark time to bring you to the light Eddie! You have brought light to so many others since.
DeleteI am glad that you value your relationship with God more than any woman. God allowed that pain for the greater good. To put Him first. Glad your priorities have changed. God bless.
DeleteThanks for sharing. You have great things ahead of you my brother.
DeleteEddie so glad that God has great plans for your life and that you have put your trust and faith in Him alone.
Delete1.: I had a similar situation I lost my dog and my girlfriend at the same time. I felt empty and bleak. Right now I'm going through some pretty rough times having to move out of my home that I've lived in for 20 years. But the difference is I have the Lord in my life.
ReplyDelete2. ecc.1.14." I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind." Sometimes I feel like I am chasing the wind. I can see why King Solomon use the word meaning less so many times because a lot of things that we do are just that meaningless.
Glad to see that you have a a strong relationship with God. You are not easily moved. God bless.
DeleteGod is with you My brother. Through all that God has been there for you the whole time.
DeleteKeep strong brother, glad to hear that your hope is in God alone. he will carry you through this situation.
DeleteSo glad we don't have to go life alone George. You have caring brothers and an all caring Father.
Delete1- There was a time between the years of 2007-2010. I had left the church. All I did was go to work and party. My life revolves around drinking and girls. Day after day I hung out with the same group of friends and we would drink about 4 or 5 days out of the week. I woke up many mornings hungover. I felt empty and without a purpose but yet I would continue in that cycle until 2010 when I had had enough and cried out to God one night. I can look back to that time and see how God worked in my life to get me back to church and into community and healthy relationships.
ReplyDelete2- Ecclesiastes 1:4
A generation goes, and a generation comes, but the earth remains forever. ESV
I picked this verse because it stood out to me as a reminder of a conversation I once had with someone. They quoted this verse and told me "God will not judge and destroy the earth because your own bible says that the earth will remain for ever". At that time I was not familiar with Ecclesiasties but I pulle out my bible and skimmed over the chapter. I replied to the person. "Well when a verse is singles out it is easily taken out of context. Here Solomon is talking about life. He in no way is giving a prophetic word but rather is saying that people come and go and yet the world will keep turning long after their generation.
Glad to see that God has shown you meaning. It is very joyful to be doing God's work. God bless.
DeleteGlad you broke your old habits and came back to God. May God continue to work in you a bless you Luis.
DeleteYou're right, a verse out of Ecclesiastes can easily mislead people. Solomon is looking at how things appear. It's important that such people understand the doctrine of progressive revelation also. The NT certainly reveals more truth than the OT does.
DeleteMoving to Chicago from Texas in 2008 was a challenging time for me. I left home with an adventurer's heart, full of anticipation and excitement. I was finally setting off on my own (well, not exactly my own; my girlfriend was with me), and I was headed to a city I had first visited and fallen in love with only two years prior in 2006. The first few days, I was a tourist, exploring every popular destination in the city, but the excitement of the move quickly faded and reality started sinking in. I was over a thousand miles from the only home I'd ever known, far from my family and friends...far from life as I knew it. I was in a strange new land surrounded by strange new people. Before leaving Texas, a priest from the school I taught at and the parish I belonged to gave me this advice, "Hold true to your faith. People will try to change you, make you see the world as they see it. Don't let them." As introverted as I am, the thought of others influencing me never really concerned me. I had always marched to the beat of my own drum, for better or worse. Still, I changed. I changed because in my self-imposed isolation I also isolated myself from God. I still attended Sunday Mass at the church down the street with my girlfriend and her family, but I was only going through the motions. I wasn't active in the church. My heart was no longer on mission to share the Gospel. I had become a backseat passenger to my faith.
ReplyDeleteGrowing up Catholic, I wasn't accustomed to opening my Bible. It was just another "must have" book on my bookshelf. My girlfriend's mom had even purchased each of us our own Bible, but it sat there, gathering dust. The void growing inside me was apparent in my words, in my thoughts, and in my actions. Rather than fill it with the Word of God and His divine wisdom, I filled it with whatever would help me pass the time from sunrise to sunset, whether that was school, or video games, or reading everything I could get my hands on except my Bible. I made many mistakes during that time and befriended people who did not have my best interest at heart. I let the world lead me astray after all, and one failure after another amounted to a mountain of guilt and shame. I was ashamed by what I'd done and ashamed of who I had become. This wasn't my last major plunge into darkness, but it was the first in a long string of falls that finally brought me, utterly, to my knees. Sometimes, the only way to recognize that you are on a downward slope is to finally slam, face first, into the ground you've been heading for all this time. Only recently did I learn the value in finding myself on my knees. It is from this position, when not even your pride allows you to stand back up, that you recognize your own brokenness and accept that you, alone, cannot put the pieces back together and that the God-shaped void in your life can only be filled by God. I am glad to have found men along the road that have come to that same realization at some point in their life or another.
Wow glad you turned your life around. God had a plan for you all along the way. Keep fighting the good fight bro. God bless.
DeleteGreat words my brother. You have been through a lot. I pray God uses you in a mighty way.
DeleteI can identify with much of what you said. When I was Catholic the bible stayed on the shelf of my family's house as more of a talisman against evil and not really to be read. I'm glad we both recognize the importance of the content of the bible now.
DeleteThank you Lord for the way you have worked in transforming Osiris. He is a great brother you have blessed us with.
DeleteEcclesiastes 1:15 "What is crooked cannot be straightened; what is lacking cannot be counted."
ReplyDeleteHow true these words are, and how foolish a man can be to think otherwise. I have been that foolish man, thinking that I can mend my crooked ways with my own two hands and make up for my shortcomings by my good deeds. All of this is folly. Only by grace alone can we achieve anything. By God's divine grace alone can we be mended and built up, all according to God's purpose for each of us, and in His own time. Our responsibility is to have an open heart to hear and receive His Word which he speaks into our heart, not our ears.
Ecclesiastes 1:18 "For with much wisdom comes much sorrow; the more knowledge, the more grief."
What value is there in pursuing after the knowledge and wisdom of this passing world. Like a child filling a hole dug along the shoreline of a great beach or lake, we will never fill the hole. We cannot presume to empty the lake one cup at a time. All that the wisdom of this world will ever amount to is pain and grief, for that is the nature of this world and of our mortal existence. Fix your mind, instead, on the wisdom of God found in the Word. Set your eyes on the world to come and seek the path that leads you there through Jesus Christ.
Great comments on these two verses Osiris!
Delete1. I was in despair before I got saved and realized that my sins had been forgiven though the blood of Christ. People on the the outside saw a confident man who had the love of a beautiful wife, great daughter, successful business, and financial security-- but inside I was tormented by guilt and shame for my transgressions. God opened my heart and eyes to his beautiful forgiveness and rescued me. My life has meaning as its only a mist to share with others and encourage the sick to get well through Christ.
ReplyDeleteAlways encouraged hearing your words and testimony Jack. Thank you!
DeleteYour testimony brings a smile to me, my friend!
Delete1. One of my darkest moments was when I was in high school. I was depressed and felt lonely. I felt abandoned and rejected. I would cry to sleep and ask why I had a bad upbringing. Before I was saved I was seeking opportunities to be unfaithful to my wife. Thankfully I was rejected and started seeking a relationship with God. Now I have a more fulfilling relationship than I have ever had, It is with my Father in heaven. I have also gotten closer to my wife. God is great!
ReplyDelete2. Ecclesiastes 1:14 I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.
King Solomon certainly did and seen a lot. The most fulfilling is having a relationship with God. Have a blessed day.
Sam so glad that you put your faith in Christ and that you are seeking more of him. You are a great testimony of what the transforming powe of God can do in someone that is will to submit to Him.
DeleteThank you Father for turning Sam around and to you Father. What a good brother and friend we now have.
Deleteeccl 1:10. There is nothing of importance that's new that God didn't know or tell us in his word prior to creation. How amazing is that! 3rd post-- having probs with internet
ReplyDeleteUgh! sorry to hear about the repeated internet problems. You are an overcomer!
DeleteI'm glad you kept at it Jack. God is amazing!
Delete1. January 30, 2005, I was alone, desperate and fed-up! Called out to the Lord and He heard my cry!
ReplyDelete2. "For with much wisdom comes much sorrow; the more knowledge, the more grief." Ecclesiastes 1:18
"Ignorance is bliss" (Author unknown to me)
I'm glad he called you. Keep up the good work brother. Sometimes I wish I was still in the dark about certain things.
DeletePsalm 40:1-3 seems like it applies well to both our pasts Robert.
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ReplyDelete1. I started having dark times from the ages 18 to 24. At the age of 18 I moved out on my own and started getting into drinking and weed. I still attended church but I kept myself distant from people because I was ashamed. I'm really glad I got out of that lifestyle.
ReplyDelete2.“I decided to learn how wisdom and knowledge are better than thinking foolish thoughts. But I learned that trying to become wise is like trying to catch the wind. Ecclesiastes 1:17 ERV. This verse sounds like Solomon decided to chase after God instead of worldly things. He then describes chasing wisdom is not an easy task. I feel we will always fall short of his glory but we must do are best to continue pushing forward.
Good word!
DeleteGreat thoughts James. And although it may seem like chasing after the wind. The best things in life don't come that easy. The metaphor of chasing the wind is crazy and awesome because it is impossible to catch. I know that in the past I felt that pursuing Christ was impossible but he is faithful to come to us. Keep seeking James. Christ is there at an arms reach.
DeleteSo glad that you have decided to follow Christ and leave you past behind. Keep strong brother.
DeleteThank you father for drawing James back to you. We are so glad he is our brother.
DeleteJames, we are going to see throughout Ecclesiastes that wisdom is not enough. It's better than folly, but even it doesn't satisfy. This is such a powerful pre-evangelism book. Those pursuing higher education thinking it will fulfill them are being warned by the wisest man of the OT that it won't.
Good thoughts and post, James! I'm glad you are here.
Delete1.The most bleak time of my life was a summer between my freshman and sophomore year. I gotten into big trouble and I felt like I couldn't get past it, like it was defining me.
ReplyDelete2.Everything’s boring, utterly boring— no one can find any meaning in it. Boring to the eye, boring to the ear. ”
Ecclesiastes 1:8 msg
Thank you Father for my nephew, brother and friend. May you continue to fill and flow through him as he impacts so many.
DeleteI think many of us can recount a similar feeling of not being able to get past the trouble we sometimes bring upon ourselves, brother. I am glad you raised this point. That sense that your poor choices are defining you is shame sinking its claws into you. The enemy uses shame to keep us chained to our sin. He whispers lies into our mind that we are unworthy of God's forgiveness and love. Nothing can separate us from the love of God unless we choose to separate ourselves from Him. Jesus Christ paid the ultimate and all-encompassing price to create that bridge between our sinful nature and the Father that can give us each a new heart anytime we repent and turn from our sins. God bless you brother, and thank you for sharing this.
DeleteHi Guys, Thanks for inviting me and allowing me to follow and contribute to the encouragement and sharing of faith of this Blog. I talked with Nick and Dave about my recent time of trying to share my faith through Facebook with atheists, Mormons, and Muslims. Many times I felt the up-hill struggle of evangelism on groups that really do not understand the Light of our faith. While I will still do that when called, I needed to be finding encouragement from people actually there to contribute and develop relationships with. So after talking with Nick, my wife and small group guys, as well as praying for guidance- I decided to join. I would rather my time online be spent growing and sharpening the blade of His word, before I wield the sword. May our relationships grow, our faith be girded, and His Will be done in our hearts. – Cheers mates! ~Rich
ReplyDelete1.- Describe one of the most empty or bleak times in your life:
I think one of my most darkened moments was in the winter of 2003. During that time I was attending my first college bout at North Park University. I had sluggishly stumbled in a slump of depression by my failures in classes and in some relationships- dating and with friends. I failed a philosophy class that semester and bombed a writing class that needed to be on my electives. My parents didn’t know and I also had a personal image issue with dating. Felt really far from God.
2. Verses and Thoughts.
Ecc. 1:17-18 "And I set my ]mind to know wisdom and to know madness and folly; I realized that this also is striving after wind. 18 Because in much wisdom there is much grief, and increasing knowledge results in increasing pain."
“Fear leads to Anger. Anger leads to Hate. Hate Leads to Suffering.” –Yoda
‘the tree of knowledge of good and evil’…. Knowing is the cost. ‘
Simply recognize that this world is trying to sell despair whole-sale. Realize you are in it, and do not suffer needlessly, we are part of a bigger and greater plan. – The writer sees the despair, the Vanity and Futility, and is writing it down, not just making a worldly connection, but an unfulfilled equation. We will get to the good stuff!
Hi Rich, Glad to have you in the group. Keep up the outreach to the atheists, Mormons, and Muslims. They need to have contact with evangelists to get more exposure to the Light.
DeletePS The "Cheers mates" makes me wonder if you are an Ozzie or from the UK.
Rich
DeleteI am always blessed by your faith and insight. I'm so glad we can reconnect more often. I miss those days when you would meet me at my house before school and just help yourself to anything in our fridge! My mom still laughs about that. But you were part of the family. Oh By the way Ed rich is no aussie but a true blue south sider like us. He likes polish saasage and buddy guy!
Very good sharing on all three points Rich! We are glad to have with us. You are a part of a great band of brothers.
DeleteRich, welcome to the group!
Delete1- I would say a time I felt empty and bleak in my life would be a year ago. I felt empty after the preaching. I felt so beaten down every Sunday. I would not look forward to go to church. Some people came into the church and began to lead the pastor in the wrong path. The pastor would preach only about sin and that we would be going to hell. We didn't get any type of encouragement from the pastor. I felt bad for the people in the church they were good people. I felt like this is what church is going to be like the rest of my life. I didn't even have the strength to even try to go to another church. The young people began to leave month after month. The church was all about rules and what not to do. Nothing that would motivate you to seek God. The church closed a year ago this month.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was told the church would be closing I began to seek help from pastor friends of mine. They all encouraged me to continue to seek God.
I remember listening to pastor Mark on the radio. That kept me encouraged and wanting to continue to seek God. I began to go to New Life in August 2014. I felt a warmth going into the church. I remember going up to pastor Mark and he prayed for me and gave me encouragement. I thank God that he never left my side and has taken care of me and my family.
2- Ecclesiastes 1:3-4New International Version (NIV)
3 What do people gain from all their labors
at which they toil under the sun?
4 Generations come and generations go,
but the earth remains forever.
Thank you Father for leading Vince to New Life and a renewed life in You. We are so blessed to have such a God seeking and encouraging brother.
Delete1 A bleak time was when I was teaching at a school in Harvey. Many of the kids that I taught could care less about school. I tried really hard to motivate them, but came to the conclusion that ultimately they are responsible for motivating themselves. The expression "you can bring a horse to water, but you can't make them drink" stood out that whole year. Mixed in with the apathetic students were a handful of eager and hard-working students who helped to balance out my day.
ReplyDeleteLooking back I can see that God gave me this job so that I would be hungry to teach back overseas. The kids I have taught here in Singapore are definitely the brightest and most eager I have ever taught.
2 Verse 8 stands out. It reminds me of how international school teachers travel incessantly every school break- Their eyes never have enough of seeing. The more places you visit though, the more places you feel like you need to see; but really there is nothing special about most of the places you visit. The important things are the people in your life. Which beings to mind the expression "the most important things in life are not things, but people"
8 All things are wearisome,
more than one can say.
The eye never has enough of seeing,
nor the ear its fill of hearing.
I remember those days of yours teaching in Harvey. So glad the Lord has given you the opportunity to teach highly motivated students. May you be blessed with such at your new school. Safe travels as you leave in the next day or so Ed. Please email me when you get situated. Phileo.
Delete1) The most darkest time for me would definitely be right before I bent my knee to the Lord. I had a good home, loving family, didn’t go without in my life. My family were believers, and I believed in God, but I didn’t have any relationship with him. I thought I was happy as a teen, but I noticed that in my heart, I felt empty, truly empty. When I thought about life, I felt just light Ecclesiastes said, “meaningless”. I didn’t like myself or what I saw in a mirror, and I felt like I had no future, no job, no wife, no aspiration. I hid that feeling from myself, and tried to joke and laugh, and fill my life with things that left me empty. This was something that I lived with. This physically took its toll on me, and I started suffering from Anxiety/Panic Attacks that left it hard for me to breathe deep breaths. As I physically grew worse, I fell into depression further, until I didn’t want to even be in this world anymore.
ReplyDeleteThat’s when the Lord met me. Something in my heart told me to seek Him. I tried, I turned to the Lord, to His Word, and to prayer. He met me there, and compelled me to learn more about Him. That is when I knew I needed to bend my proud knee to Him, and only then would I be filled with Him, and healing in my life could take place. I did at the alter, and everything changed. I quickly plugged in with a small group, and got mentored and baptized. All that time, I still was physically suffering, but less and less. Finally, I told the Lord how happy I was, he used something meant for bad in my life, to turn me to Him. "I don’t need healing, God, you used it for me to find you”. That is when God worked greater, and healed me further than ever. He restored me, because I had found “the point” to this life. His Son, and service in gratefulness to Him. Praise the Lord, that I am so much better, and full of the Joy and Peace of Christ this day. He has redeemed me, saved me, and called me to His purpose.
2) Ecclesiastes 1:3 “What do people gain from all their labors at which they toil under the sun?”
The reason it stood out to me is really because that was exactly going through my mind once in my darkness. It reminds me of how the Lord took the blinders from my eyes and see the world and our existence through the Lens of His word.
Thank you Father for rescuing William from his darkness and depression. Thank you that you have so marvelously transformed him. He is a joy to be around!
DeleteWilliam, you are such an encouragement to me!. To see you grow as a follower of Christ has been a huge blessing. Praise the Lord!
Delete1. Rock bottom, huh! Well life have never been easy or add i would think fair. At times i wonder if my name is Jabez! Life has always been rough, but in winter of 2005 my life went from bad to worse. I seen my little sister take her last breath as she left us. That was tough! Months later my parents divorced after being married 33 years. My father left the country and me and my siblings scrambled to help my mother get situated. Today i stand here thanking Good for the person he had made me. I have been thru more in my life then most people will ever see in thier life.
ReplyDelete2. Ecclesiastes 1: 9 What has been is what will be, and what has been done is what will be done, and there is nothing new under the sun.
Nothing is new or nothing has changed. Everything had been planned before are mere existence. When things happen they cannot be changed only Good has the ability to changed or circumstance. We know what we would like but God had planned our life. Basically it's our of our control, it's Gods will.
Ugh! You have gone through so much and yet you radiate joy Horacio. It's always good to talk with you.
DeleteOthers will be enriched as they get to know you better as well.
1.I would say my late teens when I moved from my old neighborhood in Chicago to a Suburb. I started a new school and it felt like having to start all over again. It was difficult to adjust to the new environment and I couldnt wait to get out of school everyday. I would argue with my parents alot and blame them for many things that werent their fault.
ReplyDelete2. Ecclesiastes 1:4 Generations come and generations go, but the earth remains forever.
This is why we need God. Life in physical form will come and go and people will forget over time. Whats important is believing in God because heaven is eternity.
Thank you Father for Chuy. I know you have plans to bring much fruit through his life as he continues walking with you.
Delete1. In college I had put all my eggs in one basket. I took my eyes off of God and let this girl rule my heart. I was left depressed and discouraged. When she left me that's when porn really kicked off in my life. It hurt my schooling, my pastoral ambitions, and taken me years to cast off. Yes my second year of college and right after college were my darkest days.
ReplyDelete2. A generation goes and a generation comes, But the earth remains forever. (Ecclesiastes 1:4 NASB)
Life goes on even after our life on earth goes out. Trends come and go. They come back repackaged but the same stuff. When I was in high school kids played hacky sack, had hippie hair, and listened to 70s music. Earth keeps rolling on!
Thank you Father for my friend Nic. I am glad we have reconnected and believe that he is a much fruit man. Strengthen him with might by your Spirit.
Delete1) the time I felt the most empty was when I lost a relationship to a girl I put all my trust in and then I felt I lost all my friends I had over the years I didn't know how to fill the void of not having some one to talk to so that is when I talked to God and asked him for guidance and fulfillment. I don't know where I would be if I didn't get saved our I don't even know if I would have still been alive.
ReplyDeleteThank you Father for drawing Andre to you in his time of deep despair. May he enjoy new and true friends he now has in Christ.
DeleteYes! Thank you Father for rescuing our brother Andre! ;)
DeleteAndre, I'm glad you turned to God and followed his guidance.
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ReplyDeleteI recall one real challenging time that until about two years ago would always creep back into my mind and I would remember it with a very real disgrace
I recall when I was much younger that I was at a friend’s birthday party and while going through some activities and out of nowhere I couldn’t find anyone I came to the Party with. I was looking for them all over the place and didn’t find a soul. But I did find them later, about an hour, all together eating pizza. Later in my life it was always this negative reminder that I would be forced to be alone or have these falsehood connections with people that would eventually leave or move on.
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Verse 1:9 is a very helpful reminder and a striking statement that not only does the Word of God speak to humanity’s interactions and leaning toward sinful nature nut the only recourse. There is history and prediction in the word.
What has been is what will be,
and what has been done is what will be done,
and there is nothing new under the sun.
Father I thank you that Gary his your dearly loved son. Thank you that he knows that he is wanted by you and by us.
DeleteGreat verse and insight. You also have a brother hood right here bro!
Delete1) it was around 2006, we had just bought our 2nd house and a week later I lost my job of 31/2 years! To top it off, we were one of the homebuyers that got played by a mortgage company. I was unemployed, my mortgage had increased by $900 and Christmas was around the corner. I applied everywhere, but couldn't get a job. I prayed and prayed and in time we have come out of the slump and are doing fine now.
ReplyDelete2)“For with much wisdom comes much sorrow; the more knowledge, the more grief.”
Ecclesiastes 1:18
Wow Ricardo! What a difficult time! How did you ever get out of that pit? Ps.40:1-3
DeleteThank you Father for Ricardo. May you continue to encourage him and strengthen him.
1. Chasing after something that was not there anymore, yes "chasing fter the wind". That was trying to keep hold of my so called high school sweetheart. Known her for 12 years and in relationship for just about 8yrs. After so my wrongful, immature decisions that ultimately dragged it and broke that into million pieces... Determined to keep her, I tried everything but after a while it literally felt like I was the only one trying to fight for that relationship in middle of the ring.. pointless and meaningless. I do praise God that he never turned his back on me for also is through her that the seeds of the Gospel became ever so real.
ReplyDeleteMy lord literally has transformed my life around, opened freely the gift of salvation and has given me LIFE!!
http://bible.com/111/ecc.1.4.niv Generations come and generations go, but the earth remains forever.
DeleteJust makes me think of "legacy maker" for "the word of the Lord stands forever!"
Amen! Once u let go of her, I bet u received an overflowing of blessings ;)
DeleteAmen, yes, Jesus really fills my cup my brother
DeleteFather, thank you for using such a heartbreaking time in Ismael's life to bring him to a new heart and life in you.
Delete1. One of my most empty times was in 2009 when I was a strung out heroin addict. I hated myself and saw NO hope or future for myself.
ReplyDelete2. Ecclesiastes 1:3 What do people gain from all there labors, at which they toil under the sun? )
I'm glad to say now we can lay our eye to hope of our present, future and eternity in Christ Jesus
DeleteFather, thank you for the amazing change you have wrought in Phil's life. He is a joy to be around. Continue to fill and flow through him.
DeleteDave, I like the way you worded this - Life lived merely under the sun and not with the Son leaves us often feeling restless and meaningless. We need a Savior!
ReplyDelete1 – A time that was empty and bleak in my life was after I canceled my wedding and broke up with my fiancé. While we were dating I spent most of my time with her and let a lot of friendships dwindle. After the breakup I didn’t have anyone that I could really talk to. Other than my family I didn’t have any real friends that I could lean on.
2 – Ecclesiastes 1:14 I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind. Nothing in this chapter was really jumping out at me today so I opened the Moody Bible Commentary. For this verse it points out that chasing after the wind is both frustrating and futile because you can’t catch it and even if you did you would still have nothing, like everything from the earth. It’s by following God that we bring meaning and joy into our lives.
Ouch! What a tough, life impacting event to go through George for you and your fiance.
DeleteGreat job on your research in uncovering some the meaning.
Thanks George and thanks for sharing with me before about that bleak chapter in your life. Thank you Father for how you have turned things around so much for George.
DeleteGood digging!
1) I cannot remember any specific empty and bleak times in my life before becoming a Christian. I was usually optimistic and hopeful as I experienced successes and my plans seemed to be falling into place. After I became a Christian I went through times of loneliness, sadness, excessive stressfulness and discouragement, but I also still had hope and trust in God.
ReplyDelete2) Ecclesiastes 1:2 “Meaningless! Meaningless!” says the Teacher. “Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.”
This is the only conclusion that wisdom and knowledge can come to from the perspective that there was no God. There is no meaning to anything. There is no hope or expectation for anything better and that realization brings only sorrow and grief. Things change completely with God in the picture. To ignore God then makes things far worst then meaningless. Now there are eternal consequences of unending suffering if separated from God. To know God brings purpose in everything. Even a chore like cutting the grass every week, can be done in consideration to make things more attractive for those around. Otherliness (doing things out of concern for others) aligns us with the will and glory of God. And having the fear of the Lord where we are seeking and following God will bring enormous rewards of awesome eternal blessings which should motivate us to not waste our lives on things that are pointless and meaningless.
Thank You Father for Dave, he is such a godly man who enriches us and others. Continue to use him to light the way for others.
Delete1. I was living a meaningless life for many years and I thank my old girlfriend for leaving me back in 2003. I was heartbroken and going to a touch time. Then in 2004 the Lord Jesus Christ save me form a life of meaningless to a life full of meaning. I was ask to study the bible and became a Cristian man. I now have a purpose to serve the Lord and share the good news of Jesus Christ the meaning to life. I am full of life and happy to serve an Almighty God who is perfect. Amen
ReplyDelete2. Ecclesiastes 1:14 I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.
Thank you Father for using a break up for your love to break through to Oscar. He is a man of peace and a man of God. Continue to fill and flow through him.
Delete1.- I would have to say that two of the deepest hurtful times were when I experienced the loss of my brother and my father. When my brother died, I went on a drinking binge for about 3 weeks. When my father passed, it wasn’t nearly as bad but I was hurt…..but it hurt in a different way. I miss him still.
ReplyDelete2.- The eye never has enough of seeing, nor the ear its fill of hearing.
This reminds me a lot of myself. I love to people-watch. The problem is, I love to life-watch also. I love to watch life and wonder what it would be like to be ‘on the other side.’ If I had to guess, I would imagine that I would have an aggregate of several months lapse where I was discontent and wishing that I was somewhere else; somewhere that was “better” and that I deserved to be at rather than where I was.
I commend you for your honest thoughts, and self application. God speed brother.
DeleteMy dad's passing was also a very difficult time in my life spiritually. Rather than reacting through grief, I reacted through anger and for many years, God was the target of my anger. For me, the response to my pain and anger was reckless behavior. I started living without fear of death, but also without fear of God. In my foolish mind, He owed me one for taking my father. This is no way to live, and certainly not the path of a man of God. I have been working, since, on rebuilding my relationship with the Lord and repenting for my foolish ways.
DeleteThank You Father for the way You have faithfully had your hand upon Mark. Many could wish to be where he is at today.
Delete1) I pursued sex, drugs, adrenaline, friends, money and for a time it was satisfying, but they all had their limitations. There was only so much pleasure they could offer, they were designed with limitations, they were designed to fail lasting satisfaction on their own. There were many nights both high and sober, even after sex when my thoughts would confront me and ask what's the point? At this stage in life I knew about and believed (intellectually) in the gospel, That Jesus was God, That I was a sinner, that He was willing to forgive me. What I didn't know at that time was that God could grant me purpose, fill me with motivation to live, That I could feel like I was a part of something that transcends time, something of vast importance, That Christianity could offer me a higher caliber of life. Meaningful joy and peace with my future. My philosophical wheels would turn and I was deeply aware that I wanted to be a part of something greater, these conclusions gave me deep despair.
ReplyDelete2) 1:18 Holman Christian Standard Bible
For with much wisdom is much sorrow; as knowledge increases, grief increases.
With out a greater scope of what will ultimately happen, awareness of our current reality can be very sorrowful. We must first become aware of truth by our senses before we can feel the impact of truth with those same senses, this brings with it the sensation of the truth that we are presently focused it can be either intense sorrow or overwhelming joy. Let us be cunning with our focus using it for our advantage and the honor of our king.
Such an important point Antonio. We need to let people know that their life can have meaning, not only forgiveness.
DeleteThank You Father for doing that for Antonio. Use his deep running stream to bring the water of life to others.
1. It was a beautiful day, July 2009 and I had just celebrated my surprise birthday with family and friends a few days earlier, when all of a sudden, I had a migraine headache unlike one ever before. I was at work and I took every pain killer and excedrin that i could find, but nothing was working. It was a constant throbbing on the top of my head as if someone was sticking needles in my skull. I tried putting ice packs on my head and took more aspirin, but nothing worked. After suffering for 6 hours, i went to the emergency room where the doctors did a CT of my head and did a spinal puncture to check the fluid around my brain for blood. Both tests came out stating that nothing was wrong! So the hospital sent me home with some strong aspirin. I did not sleep a wink that night, due to the pain, so the next day, I went to my dentist asking if it could be a tooth that I had procrastinated on pulling and he said "no", but I had him pull the tooth anyway, because the pain in my head was sooooo bad! He pulled it and now my mouth was in pain, but no migraine headache relief all day. That second night, I could not sleep a wink either, and then all of a sudden, my entire right side of my face went paralyzed, and I freaked out!!! I remember crying out to God asking Him what is happening to me? but I also reassured Him, no matter what, I was going to Love Him all the days of my life. I then went to an ENT-specialist and I was diagnosed with "Ramsey Hunt Syndrome", after suffering with "Shingles" in my right ear. It has left me with permanent vein damage on the right side of my face and nerve damage on my right eye. I missed 2 months of work suffering from paralysis on my face and this was the "Darkest time of my life". God has never fully healed me of this, even though I have prayed at least a 1,000 times by myself and with others. God is faithful and He has never left me nor has He forsaken me! I have nothing to complain about, because God is good all the time, and He continues to empower me and bless me in so many ways :) I was so embarrassed to talk in front of others, but my business excelled over the past 6 years and the Lord has given me so many opportunities to talk in front of many people for bible studies! Thank you Lord Jesus :)
ReplyDelete2. Prov 1:14 says "I have seen all the works which have been done under the sun, and behold, all is vanity and chasing after wind."
Good post, Tio! I remember when that happened as well. I'm very glad that you have gotten much better than you were and that you didn't let it affect your mission!
DeleteAmen brother, god faces us with trial and tribulations to test our faith. I believe he never leads us into a situation we can't overcome. I pray the lord continues to bless you brother.
DeleteWow Israel, what a scary ordeal! So glad you remained devoted to the Lord through it all.
DeleteFather, thank you for the way you shine out through Israel. Please continue to radiate through him to others. He is a man on mission with you.
1) My teen years were a very empty and dark time for me. This wasn't because I had a bad family life or anything like that. It was instead because I had begun to believe many lies about myself and life. As a result, I felt extremely alienated for other people. Most importantly, I felt very far from God during that time due to doubt and shame. As time went on, I saw meaninglessness in everything, and I had a lot of trouble enjoying myself. After a while, I began to have rather persistent suicidal thoughts which tormented me. However, when I needed it most, God intervened and gave me the strength and hope to live on and to not give up. I know that I'm alive today because of God, and I'm incredibly thankful for it.
ReplyDelete2) Ecclesiastes 1:18 "For with much wisdom comes much sorrow; the more knowledge, the more grief."
Oh wow! So glad you persevered and fought through the lies of the enemy Alex!
DeleteFather may you help Alex all the more to be rooted and grounded in the soil of your great love for him and that he would bear much fruit.
Good post Alex, I have personally seen God move in your life sooooooo much and I am so grateful and thankful for Him blessing you in so many ways. God has given you such a smart mind for learning and knowledge, and I know that He has big plans for you my dear nephew :) Just keep trusting in Him, like you are doing, and remain dependent upon Him :) Oh Lord, may You continue to unravel Your gracious will before Alex as he follows You everyday of his life, Amen.
Delete1.- I remember back in 1965 when I was 9 years old when my brother Vicente was shot in the head and died from a drive by shooting at the age of 15. This devastated my family,
ReplyDeleteespecially my father because he brought us to this country from Mexico, and in less than 10 years being here he lost his son to gang violence in the street. At this age and time in my life I could never have imagine this happening, I was so busy just having fun and playing with family and friends. This was a sad and painful time and I felt very angry that my brother was no longer with us and I didn't understand his death, why he was gone, I remember wishing and telling God it should have been me, and not my brother that should of died. I believe now I might of felt that way because maybe this was my way of dealing from the reality of his death and the effects it had on me and all of us in the family. Maybe it was my personal way of not being present, my escape from having to go through this painful process of his death. I also develop a lot of hatred for the person who killed my brother and cause so much pain to my family, as I got a older I felt like avenging his death. These thoughts of vengeance were haunting me at times and remain with me for years until a was able to release and rid myself of these burden feelings and forgave him when I went to my first new life men's retreat in 2012. I now have Christ in my life and now know that he will be judge by Christ just as I will, I pray that he may come to Christ and repent of his sins.
Ecc. 1:14
I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.
Hosea 8:7a
They sow the wind and reap the whirlwind
Ps. 37:3
Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.
Through God I was able to free myself from this toiling in the wind helplessly from entrapment of this state of hatred n vengeance.
Oh wow Armando! Such a tragedy! Thank you Father for freeing Armando from hate and vengeance and giving him forgiveness. You have made him a man at peace whom we enjoy.
Delete1: The most darkest time in my life was when my aunt passed. I was still young but old enough to remember, it was around my 6th or 7th birthday. Even though she was my aunt I called her my mother she raised me from when I was toddler until about 5 years old. I remember it like it was yesterday, at the time I didn't understand it. I remember asking my cousin if my aunt was coming to my party and she said no, I got upset but then she said she is gone to heaven. I was confused and she pointed to the sky and said she is up there now and she is not coming back even then I didn't quite understand it, it didn't really hit me until the funeral I didn't show any emotion during the wake, I guess my mind was so focused on my family members who I haven't seen in so long.
ReplyDeleteThe day of the burial was completely different though. I kept crying the whole day. But after the priest prayed, and they lowered her casket into the ground I broke down. I couldn't control myself, I was literally trying to jump in the burial site with her. I didn't want to leave, I told my mother I wanted to stay with her, (even as I type my heart feels broken again.) Since my aunt passed I never could show any real emotion when anyone else passed. I feel like that experience took all feeling away when it came to a death.
The only other time I showed emotion at a funeral is when my uncle passed (my pops) he helped my aunt raise me. Its been about 3 years now since god called him home. I just wish he could have meet my kids, at lease him and my aunt are reunited in paradise with our lord.
2: Ecclesiastes 1:11 no one remembers the former generations, and even those yet to come will not be remembered by those who follow them.
Oh how sad Jose! Father, I thank you for drawing Jose to yourself and giving him new life and comfort that a grand reunion awaits us. Strengthen him with might by your Spirit in his inner being that Christ may be completely at home in his life as he walks daily with you by faith.
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ReplyDelete1. I don't really have one specific moment that was my darkest. My childhood was pretty dark throughout. Growing up I was physically and verbally abused. It got to the point that I started to believe that the abuse was my own fault, that I deserved it for not being a better son and brother. I figured that my family would be better off without me. So starting at age 9 I began to entertain suicidal thoughts and self-harm tendencies. I began to starve myself, I would restrict my breathing through suffocation/choking hoping that somehow I would end my life, on top of regularly running away to be free of the abuse and to save my family from the dishonor of having me connected to them. I could never do the deed though. I remember praying as a young boy for God to save me, to take me from this pain, begging him to let me die. The abuse and pain would always continue through and in the end the sadness I felt turned to anger and hatred towards my family and towards God for putting me through all that. In high school I began to cut myself in order to escape the pain, and slowly became addicted to the numbness and the endorphin rush that cutting created. I couldn't even last a day without cutting myself. This self-harm addiction continued until my sophomore year of college when I finally allowed God back into my life. To this day I still struggle with the aftereffects of my actions and while I am sad thinking about my past I am also happy to see what God has pulled me through.
2. Ecclesiastes 1:8 All things are wearisome, more than one can say. The eye never has enough of seeing, nor the ear its fill of hearing.
Wow Michael! I am so sad to hear what you went through. but I am so glad now for how the Lord has renewed you.
DeleteThank You Father for Michael! Please often remind him that you are with him and rejoice over him with singing.
1) The wise have eyes in their heads, while the fool walks in the darkness; but I came to realize that the same fate overtakes them both. (Ecclesiastes 2:14 NIV)
ReplyDelete2) "the uniqueness of Christianity" the video was very informative on how the Christian religion explains the beliefs and has facts to back them up